I\u2019m 30. If you\u2019re between 18-30 these things will save you years of pain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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No one is coming to save you. Build Yourself.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
Stop chasing people who are unsure about you. Confusion is your answer.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
Build your body and your bank account at the same time. No one regrets being strong and financially independent.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
Do not shrink yourself to keep any relationship. The right people rise with you.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
Heal your patterns early. Business, Relationships, Habits. The same lesson will repeat until you learn it.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
Travel alone at least once. You\u2019ll meet the version of you that isn\u2019t influenced by anyone.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
Take the risk. Do the dam thing. The embarrassment lasts a day, Regret lasts years.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
Protect your reputation and character at all cost. Treat others how you want to be treated. People never forget especially on the internet.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
Learn how to sit alone. If you can enjoy your own company, you\u2019ll never stay where you\u2019re not valued.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
Start before you feel ready. You will never feel fully ready so fail forward.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
Choose peace over proving a point or getting even. Every dam time.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
Your 20s will stretch you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
They will humble you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
They will break you open.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But they also build you into someone powerful if you stop avoiding the lessons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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