I’m 30. If you’re between 18-30 these things will save you years of pain.
- No one is coming to save you. Build Yourself.
- Stop chasing people who are unsure about you. Confusion is your answer.
- Build your body and your bank account at the same time. No one regrets being strong and financially independent.
- Do not shrink yourself to keep any relationship. The right people rise with you.
- Heal your patterns early. Business, Relationships, Habits. The same lesson will repeat until you learn it.
- Travel alone at least once. You’ll meet the version of you that isn’t influenced by anyone.
- Take the risk. Do the dam thing. The embarrassment lasts a day, Regret lasts years.
- Protect your reputation and character at all cost. Treat others how you want to be treated. People never forget especially on the internet.
- Learn how to sit alone. If you can enjoy your own company, you’ll never stay where you’re not valued.
- Start before you feel ready. You will never feel fully ready so fail forward.
- Choose peace over proving a point or getting even. Every dam time.
Your 20s will stretch you.
They will humble you.
They will break you open.
But they also build you into someone powerful if you stop avoiding the lessons.
Cait xx